The Build Ready Index™ is a whole-person life-readiness assessment designed to help you understand where you are today and where you can grow.
Explore the knowledge, character, habits, self-mastery, financial readiness, relationships, leadership, life skills, spirituality, and future readiness that help you lead yourself well.
The BRI builds the capacity to govern yourself, form strong relationships, strengthen communities, and improve generational inheritance through discipline, contribution, and service.
Growth connects assessment with practical action, reflection, and real-world practice. Virtual practice can provide another setting for working through everyday situations.
Emotional Skills Lab (ESL) is a practical emotional intelligence training system designed to help people develop self-awareness, make better decisions, and build healthier relationships.
Through real-life scenarios, engaging content, and practical resources, ESL teaches the skills needed to break negative patterns and create a better future.
Coach Wells brings emotional skills into the community through mentoring, conversation, and time together. Our boys group creates space to connect, practice responsible choices, and support one another.
I pause. I think. I choose. We carry that practice into everyday life.
A recent gathering with our boys group.Building connection through time together.
Meet Coach Wells
Who is Coach Wells?
Randolph “Coach Wells” Wells Jr. is the founder of Emotional Skills Lab, an author, speaker, and mentor based in Tulsa.
“I pause. I think. I choose. That's how you become a Pattern Breaker.”
Schools, youth programs, families, community groups, and organizations looking for practical emotional skills education. Program fit is discussed with Coach Wells.
What happens during a session?
Guided discussion, reflection, scenarios, and activities help participants practice emotional awareness, self-regulation, communication, and responsible choices.
Can we discuss a program for our organization?
Yes. Call, text, or prepare an email inquiry below. Share your setting, audience, goals, and preferred schedule.
How does the Build Ready Index connect?
The BRI is a separate developmental pilot within the Emotional Skills Lab ecosystem. Visit the BRI site to explore its current pathways and participation process.
CONTACT EMOTIONAL SKILLS LAB
Book Coach Wells
Request a workshop, speaking engagement, youth program, or community partnership. Share your event details and Coach Wells will discuss availability, format, and pricing with you.
